5 Tips on How To End a Conversation With a Girl !

OK boys, Brace your selves.

Have you ever been in one of those situations where you are not interested in the girl who keeps yammering on about her nails? Have you ever asked, "Dear God, why doesn't she just shut up?" Well, if you are looking to just end a conversation, follow the following tips.

1: Say something. One of the nicest ways to break off a conversation with a girl is to attempt an immediate change of subject, or simply try to ask her to stop. If a girl is into you, and realizes that you are getting disinterested, than she will likely comply with your request.

2: Leave. While an extreme measure, leaving sends the really strong signal that you don't want to have either a conversation with her or you are simply not interested in having a relationship. Walking away could give the impression that you really don't care about the conversation, and to an extension, her.

3:  Strike up a conversation with the person next to her. Most likely, she will get a bit upset and leave. Do not attempt this tactic if you are interested in the girl and you just want her to shut up. However if you are not interested, this strategy works well if you attempt to converse with another woman. There are two possible outcomes. Either she simply walks away, or she gets flustered and tries harder. Pray to God that she doesn't take outcome number two.

4:  Hand her off to a friend. Make sure that you have a good relationship with your buddy before doing this. Like a quarterback handing off a football to his running back, it goes best if the transition is smooth and without issue. Most likely, if the girl is completely absorbed in her talking, she won't notice if you subtly change seats. Just make sure your friend won't hate you if you attempt this.

5:  Put on headphones. This is the last measure that you should take. If worse comes to worse, and you are for sure stuck with her for the rest of the night, plug into your smartphone and just drone out her blabbering. If you don't have any of these electronic devises, and this situation happens to you often, invest in noise canceling headphones, as these also block out the angry tirade that you are sure to receive after she realizes what you are doing. Also, amuse yourself by counting light fixtures or the different types of tequila the bar has in stock.

Life is so unfair :( Am i paying a price for something ?
WHY?? why cant i just have happiness for more than two days..
Its so hard to breathe. I feel like i don't deserve that any more.. so hard.. So hard to breathe. I keep choking on my own words as i write this. tears rolling down my face into an endless ocean..

Just ... PLEASE .. :'(  please ..

STEPS ON HOW TO HANDLE AN ARGUMENT IN A RELATIONSHIP

We are all different! That's the beauty of our diversity and uniqueness. And there nothing more beautiful than being different. It simply means your ONE OF A KIND :)

Being different can lead to various amounts of disagreements. It can arise from something as simple as from where to eat to which furniture to assemble in the dining room. 

So lets say your having an argument with your other half! How do u handle the situation? Before reading further I want you to take some time thinking about my question. HOW DOES IT ALWAYS END UP ?

Do you yell ? throw things? stomp your feet ? whine ? bring up past mistakes ? and say things that u later regret ? most of all do u PRETEND to understand him while your actually listening to what is his side of the story ?

If that's the case, I have found out that no one is a WINNER if that, is the end result.

So I have come up with a few ways to actually sort out your arguments.Ways that would result in a more productive and positive result.


1- TRY TO SPEAK CALMLY
This is very hard to do when your sensitive about that subject, and especially when your hurt and determined that it was his/her fault. Control your voice to speak as evenly as possible no matter how much rage you got inside you. This sometimes helps you collect your thoughts and not speak without thinking. Speaking in hast and without thinking is always HARMFUL!!

2- GIVE YOUR PARTNER A CHANCE TO TELL HIS/HER SIDE OF THE STORY
I am sure you hate it when people interrupt you. Specially when your trying to state something or make a point. They must feel the same. Even if you don't agree on what hes saying just hear him out. It calms him down as well.

3- MAKE AN EXTRA EFFORT TO UNDERSTAND WHAT YOUR PARTNER IS TRYING TO SAY
It is always easy to hear what someone is saying but not really listen to them. Try to understand your partner. listen to what they are really saying, don't just pretend to listen. It is really easy to fall into the trap of thinking you know what they are saying, when in fact you may not have a clue. If your partner feels like you understand them you might just be able to end the argument way quicker than you thought.

4- DON'T BRING IN PAST ISSUES
You can never change what has already happened, so there's no means to repeating it. If you keep on dwelling with your past there's no way you can move on with your future. Your partner would feel less loved and respected and you will always feel negative towards them. Let them learn from their mistakes. Encourage them when they make right choices. After all your his/her strength. The past is past so simply let it be there.

5- DON'T SAY SOMETHING YOU WILL REGRET LATER
Always consider your relationship like a glass. When taken care of, its sturdy, tough, beautiful and clear. If it is mistreated it can end up scratched, cracked or even worse.. Broken.
Take in choosing the words you say when your really in heat.

6- DON'T DEMEAN YOUR MAN OR WOMAN!
I have seen this among my friends a lot. There comes a point in a relationship when you fight so much that you lose each others respect. Try your best NOT to get to that point. Its the worse state a relationship can get into. Never ever disrespect your partner .. no matter how wrong they are. REMEMBER, there are other ways to handle it.
7- LEARN TO COMPROMISERelationships are all about compromising. Learn to do it every once in a while, you will find your self with fewer disagreements. Be willing to come up with alternative solutions for things that your partner doesn't like as well!

8- REALIZE NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY, YOU BOTH MAY NEVER AGREE ON THE ISSUE AT HAND
A argument is always started because ultimately you want the other person to agree with what your saying. It isn't always necessary. You try to explain them facts thinking they are disagreeing because they don't know them. And eventually you will get more upset when your partner doesn't agree with you. So what ? its OK. They don't have to have the same thinking. Why ? Cause your both DIFFERENT. But, if you realize that sometimes it is best to just let yourselves agree to disagree, your will show your partner that you respect their opinion and love them for who they really are. You never know , even later on they might change their mind ;)

9- MAKE A COMMITMENT TO TALK ABOUT THE SITUATION UNTIL IT IS HANDLED
Don't give them the silent treatment. It never solves anything. You may think its far more easier to just avoid the situation. But what happens when it keeps repeating itself? Make a promise to respect each other enough to work it out. What love with out a little battle eh ? :) After your just trying to get back to being normal.

10- MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP THE FIRST CONCERN WHEN IN A FIGHT
I find that some people give up very easily. That when they have disagreements and arguments they think that their relationship is bad and they can no longer work it out. Don't let everything get to you. YOU FIGHT FOR THINGS YOU LOVE. And some times it helps you gain a better perspective of you better half. Don't make it a habit to break up always. GROW UP  every once in a while.

Finally I am leaving you with my best tip! Let your partner know exactly when your upset. I am a person who tend to not speak up when something upsets me. I let it grow and fest inside me. And let me tell you this, It is not a happy feeling.
And I may not be the best person to give our this advice. But i do realize how important my partner is to me..and I m willing to apply these few rules on myself. I know I have faults.. i have hard time accepting them. But at the same time I am Trying my best to improve

I Miss you so much

YOU MEAN EVERYTHING TO ME.

Gone ..

So close enough.. My hands deep down in the ground scraping every inch of the sand. There's blood every where.. my knees dug in dirt . I stare down to my own state looking into the pool of mud that I am in.. My head keeps turning. All that i had .. God only knows what i am fighting for..

I can't feel my heart anymore.. time lay frozen with my heart melting on the ground . You cut me open ..


I try so hard not to go back cause this isn't the first time. but i cant help myself.. Hoping that it would get better in time i keep falling back in your arms and everyone around thinks I'm losing it. They don't know your embrace is the only thing that i earn for.. the only thing that i keep craving for.. They may find it hard to believe but your love's so deep in my heart that when it dies .. I ll too ..

All my blood draining out of me, i lift my face up and give one more glance at you.. And there you were.
Your eyes filled with shame, your whole body trembling, confused with what to do with me.. your eyes kept running into my eyes. Trying to look for an answer in them.

A coward. That's what i saw in your brief moment of silence. even then you were waiting for me to let you go. for me to take the fall.. to be the first to say that i want no more..
.. your feet taking one step further with every second.. u began to gain speed and before i knew .. you were gone.

YOU WERE GONE.. just like the wind .

to be continued ...

Your my penguin